When someone you love seems physically present but mentally elsewhere, the experience can range from puzzling to deeply painful. For partners of individuals with maladaptive daydreaming, this...
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Hidden Longings: Maladaptive Daydreaming Through a Schema Therapy Lens
Attention + Focus, Daydreaming, Maladaptive Daydreaming, Personality + Identity, Relationships, Trauma
Understanding Early Maladaptive Schemas and Maladaptive Daydreaming Maladaptive daydreaming—the immersive fantasy world that many individuals retreat to—can be deeply understood through Jeffrey...
How Maladaptive Daydream Content Reveals Unmet Childhood Emotional Needs
Attention + Focus, Daydreaming, Maladaptive Daydreaming, Personality + Identity, Personality Disorders, Relationships, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
The rich, immersive worlds created in maladaptive daydreaming rarely emerge by chance. Behind the elaborate storylines, recurring characters, and persistent themes lies a psychological blueprint—a...
Me, Myself, and Thai: Sam Rockwell’s Monologue on White Lotus is an Object Relationist’s Candy Store
Media + In The News, Media Analysis, Personality + Identity, Personality Disorders, Relationships, Therapy
Note: This essay contains spoilers for Season 3 episode 5 of White Lotus. We’re going to examine Sam Rockwell’s acclaimed Asian girl monologue from HBO Max’s The White Lotus through the lens of...
Analyzing Apple TV+’s Severance using Schema Therapy: Mark S’s Innie and Outie as Schema Modes
Abuse, Media + In The News, Media Analysis, Personality + Identity, Personality Disorders, Relationships, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
Mark S from Apple TV+’s Severance is a compelling fictionalized case study of extreme emotional state fragmentation. He and other Lumon employees elect to undergo the severance procedure which...
Navigating the Aftermath of Infidelity: Should You Stay or Should You Go?
Abuse, Personality + Identity, Relationships, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
Infidelity is one of the most challenging crises a couple can face. The discovery of an affair shatters trust, triggers intense emotions, and forces both partners to question the future of their...
How Schema Therapy Fights The Psychological Effects of Systemic Trauma and Oppression
Personality + Identity, Personality Disorders, Relationships, Schema Therapy, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
Schema therapy offers a powerful framework for addressing systemic oppression and promoting social justice. By focusing on deeply ingrained patterns of thought and behavior, this approach provides...
Understanding Sensory Processing Sensitivity: Are You a Highly Sensitive Person?
ADHD, Attention + Focus, Daydreaming, Personality + Identity, Relationships, Therapy
Do you often feel overwhelmed by the world around you? Are you deeply moved by art or music? Do you need time alone to recharge after busy social situations? If so, you may be what psychologists...
Schema Therapy vs DBT for BPD: Key Differences in Treatment Approaches
Borderline Personality Disorder, Media + In The News, Personality + Identity, Personality Disorders, Relationships, Schema Therapy
When it comes to treating mental health disorders, particularly Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), several therapeutic approaches are available. Two of the most popular are Dialectical Behavior...
Limerence: When a Crush Becomes an Obsession
Addiction, OCD, Personality + Identity, Relationships, Schema Therapy
Have you ever felt an overwhelming, all-consuming attraction to someone that lasted for months or even years? Did thoughts of this person dominate your waking hours, affecting your mood,...
Schema Therapy vs CBT: Key Differences and Therapeutic Approaches
Media + In The News, Media Analysis, Personality + Identity, Personality Disorders, Relationships, Schema Therapy
In the realm of psychotherapy, various approaches strive to provide effective solutions for individuals grappling with emotional and psychological challenges. Two prominent therapeutic modalities...
Best Schema Therapy Books for Personal Growth and Development
Media + In The News, Media Analysis, Personality + Identity, Personality Disorders, Relationships, Schema Therapy
Looking for the best schema therapy books? Schema therapy is a revolutionary approach to mental health that has gained significant traction in recent years. This innovative form of psychotherapy...

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