An updated exploration of empathy's darker expressions and their representation in literature and psychology Empathy—the ability to understand and share the feelings of others—is typically viewed as...
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The Dark Empathy Gallery: Fictional Characters Who Weaponize Empathy
Personality + Identity, Pop Culture, Relationships
An expanded exploration of literature and media's most manipulative empaths The world of fiction is rich with characters who demonstrate the troubling phenomenon of dark empathy—individuals who...
The Dark Empath: Understanding the Traits of Empathy’s Shadow Side
Personality + Identity, Relationships
A comprehensive guide to recognizing the characteristics of those who weaponize emotional understanding In the landscape of human personality, few phenomena are as paradoxical—or as dangerous—as the...
Spotting the Dark Empath: A Therapist’s Guide to Recognizing Manipulative Empathy
Personality + Identity, Relationships
How to identify when someone's understanding of you becomes a weapon As a therapist, I've seen countless clients who've been deeply wounded by relationships that started with the most intoxicating...
Adult Child Estrangement
EMDR Therapy, Personality + Identity, Relationships, Schema Therapy, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
Amber's Story Amber was the first-born child to her mother and father. By the time she turned five, her parents had four more children, and the weight of responsibility settled on Amber far too...
Comprehensive Couples Therapy: EMDR & Schema Approaches for Lasting Connection
Media + In The News, Media Analysis, Personality + Identity, Relationships, Trauma
What Is Couples Therapy? Couples therapy is a form of psychotherapy designed to help romantic partners improve their relationship, deepen their emotional connection, and navigate challenges...
Living with a Partner Who Has Maladaptive Daydreaming
Anxiety, Attention + Focus, Daydreaming, Maladaptive Daydreaming, Personality + Identity, Relationships
When someone you love seems physically present but mentally elsewhere, the experience can range from puzzling to deeply painful. For partners of individuals with maladaptive daydreaming, this...
Hidden Longings: Maladaptive Daydreaming Through a Schema Therapy Lens
Attention + Focus, Daydreaming, Maladaptive Daydreaming, Personality + Identity, Relationships, Trauma
Understanding Early Maladaptive Schemas and Maladaptive Daydreaming Maladaptive daydreaming—the immersive fantasy world that many individuals retreat to—can be deeply understood through Jeffrey...
How Maladaptive Daydream Content Reveals Unmet Childhood Emotional Needs
Attention + Focus, Daydreaming, Maladaptive Daydreaming, Personality + Identity, Personality Disorders, Relationships, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
The rich, immersive worlds created in maladaptive daydreaming rarely emerge by chance. Behind the elaborate storylines, recurring characters, and persistent themes lies a psychological blueprint—a...
Me, Myself, and Thai: Sam Rockwell’s Monologue on White Lotus is an Object Relationist’s Candy Store
Media + In The News, Media Analysis, Personality + Identity, Personality Disorders, Relationships, Therapy
Note: This essay contains spoilers for Season 3 episode 5 of White Lotus. We’re going to examine Sam Rockwell’s acclaimed Asian girl monologue from HBO Max’s The White Lotus through the lens of...
Analyzing Apple TV+’s Severance using Schema Therapy: Mark S’s Innie and Outie as Schema Modes
Abuse, Media + In The News, Media Analysis, Personality + Identity, Personality Disorders, Relationships, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
Mark S from Apple TV+’s Severance is a compelling fictionalized case study of extreme emotional state fragmentation. He and other Lumon employees elect to undergo the severance procedure which...
Navigating the Aftermath of Infidelity: Should You Stay or Should You Go?
Abuse, Personality + Identity, Relationships, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
Infidelity is one of the most challenging crises a couple can face. The discovery of an affair shatters trust, triggers intense emotions, and forces both partners to question the future of their...

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An updated exploration of empathy's darker expressions and their representation in literature and psychology Empathy—the ability to understand and share the feelings of others—is typically viewed as one of humanity's most noble traits. It forms the foundation of...
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