Two children come to mind whenever I am asked this question, and they are not the same child. The first was fine, and then something happened, and now is not fine. There is a date. The parents can...
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EMDR or Trauma-Focused CBT for Your Child? How to Choose
EMDR Therapy, Therapy, Trauma + PTSD
By the time a parent asks me this question, they have usually done a fair amount of reading, and they have arrived at two names. Trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy, which turns up...
When One Thing Happened: EMDR for Children
EMDR Therapy, Therapy, Trauma + PTSD
Parents calling about a single event often apologize somewhere in the first minute. It was just a car accident, and nobody was seriously hurt. It was only a dog bite, and the dog was small. He was...
EMDR for Teenagers: When Your Teen Will Not Talk About It
EMDR Therapy, Therapy, Trauma + PTSD
Your Teenager Refuses to Discuss It. EMDR May Still Work The calls I get about teenagers sound different from the calls I get about young children. With a seven-year-old, a parent wants to know...
Does EMDR Work for Children? What Parents Should Know
EMDR Therapy, Therapy, Trauma + PTSD
EMDR Therapy for Children: A Parent's Guide to How It Actually Works Nearly every parent who calls me about EMDR for their child asks the same question within the first few minutes, though they...
“I’m Afraid the Therapist Will Take My Partner’s Side.”
couples, Relationships, Therapy
Demystifying Bias in Couples Therapy One of the most common concerns I hear before meeting a new couple has nothing to do with communication, intimacy, or conflict. It's this: "I'm worried the...
Trauma and the First Responder Family: Secondary Effects on Spouses and Children
EMDR Therapy, PTSD, Relationships, Therapy, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
When One Person's Trauma Becomes the Family's Reality If you're the spouse or partner of a first responder, you know a truth that the public rarely sees: the trauma doesn't stay at the station. It...
Compassion Fatigue vs. Burnout vs. PTSD: Understanding Different Types of Occupational Distress in First Responders
PTSD, Therapy, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
AT A GLANCE • Compassion fatigue, burnout, and PTSD are distinct conditions with different mechanisms, symptoms, and treatment requirements, though they frequently co-occur in first responders and...
The Window of Tolerance in First Responders: Managing Hyperarousal and Shutdown
PTSD, Therapy, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
AT A GLANCE • The window of tolerance describes the optimal arousal zone where information processing, emotional regulation, and executive functioning operate effectively, developed by Daniel Siegel...
Complex PTSD in First Responders: When Standard Trauma Treatment Is Not Enough
EMDR Therapy, PTSD, Therapy, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
Understanding the Distinction Between PTSD and Complex PTSD The International Classification of Diseases, 11th edition (ICD-11) introduced two distinct but related diagnoses within trauma and...
Working with Dissociative Symptoms in a CBT Framework: Integrating Grounding and Presence
Understanding Dissociation as Disconnection From Present Reality Summary This article provides an in-depth examination of dissociative symptoms—disconnection from self, body, reality, or memory—as...
CBT Techniques for Fawn Response and People-Pleasing: From Self-Abandonment to Authentic Self-Advocacy
Understanding the Fawn Response as Trauma Survival Strategy Summary This comprehensive article explores the fawn response—the fourth trauma response involving compulsive people-pleasing and...

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Balanced Mind is a psychotherapy and counseling center offering online therapy throughout New York. We specialize in Schema Therapy and EMDR Therapy. We work with insurance to provide our clients with both quality and accessible care.
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EMDR for Childhood Anxiety: When It Helps and When It Does Not
Two children come to mind whenever I am asked this question, and they are not the same child. The first was fine, and then something happened, and now is not fine. There is a date. The parents can name it. Before the ambulance, or the dog, or the night the fire alarm...
EMDR or Trauma-Focused CBT for Your Child? How to Choose
By the time a parent asks me this question, they have usually done a fair amount of reading, and they have arrived at two names. Trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy, which turns up everywhere and is often described as the gold standard. And EMDR, which sounds...
When One Thing Happened: EMDR for Children
Parents calling about a single event often apologize somewhere in the first minute. It was just a car accident, and nobody was seriously hurt. It was only a dog bite, and the dog was small. He was in the hospital for two nights, which is nothing compared to what other...





