CBT for Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents: Healing from Childhood Emotional Neglect and Manipulation Understanding the Legacy of Narcissistic Parenting Summary: In this comprehensive analysis,...
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Treating Highly Sensitive Persons: CBT Adaptations
CBT Adaptations for Highly Sensitive Persons: Honoring Depth of Processing in Treatment Understanding High Sensitivity: A Trait, Not a Disorder Summary: In this article, clinician Grace Higa...
When Your Therapist Goes Viral: Navigating Public vs. Private Therapeutic Relationships
In an era where mental health content can spread rapidly across social media platforms, some therapists find themselves with viral videos, massive followings, or unexpected internet fame. For their...
Red Flags: When Your Therapist Isn’t Culturally Competent
Recognizing when your therapist lacks the cultural competency to effectively work with Black LGBTQ+ clients can save you from ineffective treatment, re-traumatization, and wasted time and money....
Finding a Black Trauma Therapist: A Guide to Culturally Affirming Mental Health Care
When seeking trauma therapy, finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming under the best of circumstances. For Black individuals, the search often involves additional considerations around...
What to Do When You Develop Feelings for Your Therapist
Developing romantic or intense emotional feelings for your therapist is far more common than most people realize. If you're experiencing this, you're not alone, you're not "weird," and you haven't...
When Therapists Cross Boundaries: Red Flags and Warning Signs
While developing feelings for your therapist is normal and can be therapeutically valuable, it's crucial to recognize when a therapist is inappropriately crossing professional boundaries. Therapist...
The Psychology Behind Falling for Your Therapist
The phenomenon of developing romantic feelings for a therapist is rooted in deep psychological processes that have been studied extensively in mental health literature. Understanding the psychology...
The Therapist’s Side: Understanding Countertransference
While much attention is given to clients' feelings toward their therapists, less is understood about the complex emotions therapists experience toward their clients. Countertransference—the...
When Your Therapist Reminds You of Someone: Making Sense of Projections
"You remind me of my mother," "You're just like my ex-boyfriend," or "You have the same energy as my best friend"—these are common experiences in therapy that reveal the fascinating psychological...
From Therapy Crush to Real Relationships: Transferring What You Learn
Having intense feelings for your therapist, while initially confusing, can become a powerful catalyst for developing healthier relationships in your real life. The insights you gain from...
Attachment Styles in the Therapy Room
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Your attachment style—the patterns of connection and relationship you developed in early childhood—plays out powerfully in the therapy room. Understanding how your attachment style manifests in...

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