Many people are surprised by the profound intimacy they experience in therapy—often describing it as deeper and more meaningful than romantic relationships, close friendships, or even family bonds....
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What Therapists Learn About Managing Attraction and Boundaries
Behind the professional facade, therapists are human beings who sometimes experience attraction to their clients. Understanding how therapists are trained to recognize, manage, and use these...
Why Therapists Can’t Date Their Clients: The Ethics Behind the Rules
The prohibition against romantic or sexual relationships between therapists and clients is one of the strongest and most universal rules in mental health care. While this might seem obvious,...
How To Ask Your Partner To Go To Couples Therapy
How Do I Talk to My Partner About Going to Couples Therapy (Couples Counseling) Couples therapy is a form of psychotherapy designed to help romantic partners improve their relationship, share their...
The Shadow Side of Understanding: Dark Empathy in Fiction and Life
Personality + Identity, Relationships
An updated exploration of empathy's darker expressions and their representation in literature and psychology Empathy—the ability to understand and share the feelings of others—is typically viewed as...
The Dark Empathy Gallery: Fictional Characters Who Weaponize Empathy
Personality + Identity, Pop Culture, Relationships
An expanded exploration of literature and media's most manipulative empaths The world of fiction is rich with characters who demonstrate the troubling phenomenon of dark empathy—individuals who...
The Dark Empath: Understanding the Traits of Empathy’s Shadow Side
Personality + Identity, Relationships
A comprehensive guide to recognizing the characteristics of those who weaponize emotional understanding In the landscape of human personality, few phenomena are as paradoxical—or as dangerous—as the...
Spotting the Dark Empath: A Therapist’s Guide to Recognizing Manipulative Empathy
Personality + Identity, Relationships
How to identify when someone's understanding of you becomes a weapon As a therapist, I've seen countless clients who've been deeply wounded by relationships that started with the most intoxicating...
Adult Child Estrangement
EMDR Therapy, Personality + Identity, Relationships, Schema Therapy, Trauma, Trauma + PTSD
Amber's Story Amber was the first-born child to her mother and father. By the time she turned five, her parents had four more children, and the weight of responsibility settled on Amber far too...
Comprehensive Couples Therapy: EMDR & Schema Approaches for Lasting Connection
Media + In The News, Media Analysis, Personality + Identity, Relationships, Trauma
What Is Couples Therapy? Couples therapy is a form of psychotherapy designed to help romantic partners improve their relationship, deepen their emotional connection, and navigate challenges...
Living with a Partner Who Has Maladaptive Daydreaming
Anxiety, Attention + Focus, Daydreaming, Maladaptive Daydreaming, Personality + Identity, Relationships
When someone you love seems physically present but mentally elsewhere, the experience can range from puzzling to deeply painful. For partners of individuals with maladaptive daydreaming, this...
Hidden Longings: Maladaptive Daydreaming Through a Schema Therapy Lens
Attention + Focus, Daydreaming, Maladaptive Daydreaming, Personality + Identity, Relationships, Trauma
Understanding Early Maladaptive Schemas and Maladaptive Daydreaming Maladaptive daydreaming—the immersive fantasy world that many individuals retreat to—can be deeply understood through Jeffrey...

Balanced Mind of New York
Balanced Mind is a psychotherapy and counseling center offering online therapy throughout New York. We specialize in Schema Therapy and EMDR Therapy. We work with insurance to provide our clients with both quality and accessible care.
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